~ What's the best way to discipline a toddler? ~ >_< ??

tOddLer oH toddLer =)

At any age, discipline should focus on teaching children how you want them to behave and not on punishment. Because children learn differently at different ages, discipline and teaching techniques should take into account the child's developmental level and ability to learn.

During the toddler years, the best techniques for teaching children how you want them to behave are repetition, distraction, and supervision.

RepetitioN

Repetition is important because children between the ages of one and three need a lot of practice to learn new concepts. The concepts involved in following directions, taking turns, and delaying gratification are new and challenging for toddlers and are learnt only through constant practice. It's no use getting upset because you've told your son over and over not to climb on the table-he may need to hear that a hundred or more times before he finally remembers what you have said so that he can use that information to modify his own behavior.

DistractioN

Distraction is especially important for helping toddlers avoid trouble. Once you've told your toddler not to climb on the coffee table, it may sink in better if you get him to leave the living room and to find something else to do. If you stay in the living room, you'll have to keep stopping him, and sooner or later someone is going to get frustrated.

The important things is that your child learns that 'no' means 'no', not that the two of you get into a battle of wills. Your child will eventually learn that climbing is not allowed, but he can find other fun things to do. You want him to learn how to find alternatives to behaviors you don't allow.

SupervisioN

Supervision involves being alert to your toddler's mood and avoiding difficult situations. Avoid confrontations by 'toddler-proofing' your child's environment so that most temptations are out of sight and true safety concerns are kept to a minimum. It's much easier for a child to learn what 'no' means if it applies to only a few situations-no hitting, no climbing, no running in the street, etc. - instead of a long list of no-no's (no touching the VCR, no touching the cat's food, no opening the cupboard doors, no going down the stairs, and so on) .


If things he's not to touch are out of reach and you put up gates to prevent your toddler from going where he's not allowed, you greatly reduce the number of rules and prohibitions he needs to understand along with his risk of making mistakes or even injuring himself.

the smile :)

learn something new ><

full of curious ^_~

mummy ! i'm ready to go ! ;D

~What type of your hair? ~

WHY SO SENSITIVE ?

hERE Are 4 CoMmoN ScaLp CoNdiTioNs

omg!! :)))

DAndruff

Not to be mistaken for dry scalp, this type of irritation occurs at areas with high sebum productions. ( It can also be a reaction to stress and anxiety.) Dandruff can be treated with medicated shampoo. If the problem persists or worsens, consult a physician.


DrY sCaLp


The clear indication of this is a tight, itchy and sometimes flaky scalp. Treat this as you would dry skin but with a moisturising or deep scalp conditioning treatment.


OilY ScaLp


This can be caused by hormonal changes, improper diet, excessive use of hair products or even environmental factors. Clean your scalp with a shampoo made  for oily hair and condition only the ends. Rinse hair with cool water to help slow down sebum production.


Scalp BleMisHes Or ScaLp FoLLiCuLiTis


Acne on the scalp appears when hair follicles get clogged by dead skin cells and sebum. When this happens, clean hair with a mild shampoo and rinse well.

The sOLutions is :-

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Information Security at the International Fund for Animal Welfare (IFAW)

The International Fund for Animal Welfare www.ifaw.org is the world's leading international animal welfare organization. The small nonprofit organization contends that ''the fate and future of all animal on Earth are inextricably linked to mankind''. IFAW has approximately 375 experienced campaigners, legal and political experts, and internationally acclaimed scientists working from offices in 15 countries. The organization targets everything from baby seal hunts in Canada to the illegal trade in elephant tusks and rhinoceros horns in Africa.

IFAW has three characteristics that impact the organization's information security. First, as an extremely dispersed organization, IFAW must deal with information security on a large international scale. Second, IFAW's mobile users carry laptops that must be protected for use outside IFAW's network yet remain safe enough to return to the network without causing damage when the user returns from trips out in the field. Third, IFAW is controversial force in conservation and therefore finds itself targeted by individuals, organizations, and even goverments that object to the organization's activities.

please save this animal ! :"(

In one instance, during the Canadian baby seal hunt, IFAW experienced probing attacks against its users' laptops when they attended the watch observation mission on Prince Edward Island. In other case, IFAW encountered denial-of-service attacks from dozens of Japanese servers because IFAW operatives were performing DNA analysis of whale meat found in a Tokyo fishmonger's shop in support of the organization's antiwhaling position. IFAW has also been targeted by custom-built malicious software designed to attack the organization. The malware was delivered from some governments specifically for the purpose of spying on IFAW's operations. 

kOreaN WavE

The korean wave, also know as Hallyu refers to spread of South Korean culture around the world. The term was coined in China in mid-1999 by Beijing journalists surprised by the fast growing popularity of Korean entertainment and culture in China. But the wave now have hit all asean and europe countries. As we know too Malaysia is no exception necessarily feel throughfall intensity. The Korean wave is responsible for achieving over one billion dolars in revenue anually for South Korea through culturals exports. 

Another concrete proof of the Korean wave articles from CNN website :)

Korean draMa

All korean drama usually come in miniseries format because almost the drama has been made not longer than 32 episodes. This format are really contribute too attracted public attention to watched that because the story are short, simple plot, nice narration and regularly end with happy ending. Many of these dramas have become famous throughout Asia and have contributed to the general phenomenon of the korean wave, as know as Hallyu, and "Drama Fever" in some countries. Most famous drama have also become famous in other parts of the world such as Latin America, the Middle East and elsewhere.

For clearly who can forget the early famous Korean Drama like Winter Sonata, Autumn In My Heart, Full House, Meteor Garden and now we got the hit latest drama like Boys Over Flowers, Pasta, He Beautiful's, Coffee Prince, Princess Hours, Sassy Girl and a lot else.

Winter Sonata

Full House

Boys Over Flowers

Pasta

Coffee Prince

Korean Pop Musics

Korean pop musics or the short form is K-pop is an mainstream musics was a musical genre consisting of hip hop, pop, electropop, rock, and R&B musics originating in South Korea. In addition to musics, K-pop has grown into a popular subculture among adolescent and young youth around the world, resulting in widespread interest in fashion and style of Korean idol group and singers. Through the born of facebook fan pages, availability on Twitter, iTunes, and music video from youtube, the ability of K-pop to reach a previously inaccessible audience via the internet is driving a paradigm swift in the exposure and popularity in this genre. It make many of talent and entertainment company grew rapidly seem like S.M Entertainment, YG Entertainment, JYP Entertainment, DSP Entertainment and so on.This company was has play important role to born the great, successful and almost all popular singer,bands and actress in become of Korean wave.The success products from this entertainment and talented company are :-

Super Junior

2ne1

Bigbang

Girls' Generation

SS501

        Shinee                                       

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~ Melody in our Life ~

                                          

                                
                                        ''  Next tO yOu =) '' 


                                            You got that smile

                                        That only heaven can made

                                    I''ll pray to God every day

                                        That you keep that smile

                                       Yeah, you are my dream

                                 There's not a thing I won't do

                                     I'll give my life up to you

                                   'Cause you are my dream

                            And, baby, everything that I have is yours

                                   You will never go cold or hungry

                                I'll be there when you're insecure

                         Let you know that you're always lovely, girl

                      'Cause you are the only thing that I got right now  

                                One day when the sky is fallin'

                        I'll be standing right next to you, right next to you

                              Nothing will ever come between us

                 'Cause I'll be standing right next to you, right next to you

                                       

                                       If you had my child

                               You would make my life complete

                               Just to have your eyes on little me

                                      That'd be mine forever

                       And baby, everything that i have is yours

                              You will never go cold or hungry   

                                 I'll be there when you're insecure                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               

                      Let you know that you're always lovely girl

                   'Cause you are the only thing that i got right now

                                  One day when the sky is fallin'
                  I'll be standing right next to you, right next to you
                           Nothing will ever come between us
              'Cause I'll be standing right next to you, right next to you

                         We're made for one another, me and you

                  And I have no fear, I know we'll make it through

                             One day when the sky is fallin'

                        I'll be standing right next to you, whoa

                        One day when the sky is fallin'
               I'll be standing right next to you, right next to you
                        Nothing will ever come between us
         'Cause I'll be standing right next to you, right next to you

                                    Stand by my side, side, side

                                      When the sky falls down

                                        I'll be there, I'll be there

                                         You've got that smile

                                     That only heaven can make

                                       I pray to god everyday

                                       To keep you forever, oh :)

                                       Chris brown feat Justin bieber

p/s : recently and curently mpb asyik n nyanyi lgu niey jer,,dont know why,,hehehe,,so x slh if mpb    nk share bcoz sharing is caring yooo,,,,kbye  *_^v